What We Receive When We Give

When we give of ourselves- whether it be money, things, or time, we are telling someone that we care, and that feels really good. In DBT, there’s a skill for distraction that consists of contributing, which offers us the opportunity to do something for someone else when we are having a hard time, a strong feeling, or rough day. The act of doing for someone else will help to lift us up. And for me- that is often in the firm of crafts, and I’m not ashamed to share it!

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8 Days Until the Election: It's Like Hanukkah, but for Anxiety

Nov 3 is nearly here, and these are simply not ordinary times. Amidst a national pandemic, the impending stress associated with such a critical election is palpable. While it’s not possible to mute all of the news and noise, there are some intentional strategies that you can employ to make the next week or so more manageable.

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Sorry, Not Sorry

Saying “sorry,” especially when you’re not at fault, is a pretty common, unconscious habit. Chances are, you’ve probably said it automatically a handful of times already today! The good news is that while automatic, habits are things we can change!

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Skills in a Time of Social Distancing

In a time where things feel so out of our control, it is expected that emotions like fear and anxiety will escalate. With barriers to our usual outlets from stress, we are challenged to find ways to safely socially engage in a meaningful way and to stay physically and emotionally healthy in uncertain times. The challenge to both manage our feelings AND practice the necessary social distancing is emotionally taxing, and choosing skillful ways to manage our emotions in this trying time is key.

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